How do you go about finding good psychics, mediums or spiritual help?

Do you seek out the advice of friends and family? Do you ask other people who are “into” psychic/spiritual or meta physical ideas? Do you go to grief groups, meetups, and ask for advice there…..or do you use popular psychic directories like YELP, or something like our site – to help decide who is real, and who is fake? How about books or events? Do these play a part in your choosing a psychic or medium? Share with us YOUR process for finding good mediums you trust – either on FB – or in the community comments below.